Sorry this took so long I had to go to work when yall responded
So I can’t go bruiser playtime unless I have gems or “hated” perk gear to hold agro and tank damage? Thats stupid im sorry but it is
If my healer friend generated 20 agro every 100 hp healed, by full healing (about 7k is the example over discord he gave me) he generated more agro than the dps in 1 spell
Let me also clarify that the silver enemy we faced in ebonscale at skysong temple took like 20 mins or longer and after about 5 mins the silver enemy agro’d my healer and no matter how much me and the mage dps hit the enemy, we couldn’t take agro and I was stunning him every opportunity I could (why I say agro should reset on stun) no matter what we do we couldn’t take agro needing a gem or the gear is so stupid if I want to be the target and tank damage, he also said he had calming 4, the calming effects must not be taking affect as there is no way they should be taking all the agro from me this is why I say healing shouldn’t be taken into account in late game a healer can nearly full heal and take agro and it doesn’t drop unless you have to have the carnelian gems which means being a tank is gated beyond what it should be.
Also another note what if I dont want to use a carnelian gem? What if I want to use one of the elemental ones instead or one that increases my flat damage, I guess it doesn’t generate more agro than the healer. Again being a tank is gated by forcing you to get a gem slot weapon and a carnelian gem, healers mages rangers, they all have easy access to their play style but not tanks and bruisers, this is hard when trying to get better gear to raise your GS for higher drops before you hit the expertise system
when I get home (as im about to leave work) ill send pictures of my gear stats and skills and anything else that may be needed




